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Elle1971 Senior Reefer



Joined: 04 Feb 2007 Posts: 177 Location: Lanzarote, Islas Canarias
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Claire... don't waste another thought on them. They obviously don't deserve your friendship. Concentrate your efforts on your impending move, and set your sights on having happier times!
This playground nonsense is beneath you - so don't dignify it by giving them your energies.
Much love from Lanzarote
Elle xx _________________ "Who nicked the cork from my lunch?!" W.C. Fields |
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Tue Feb 12, 2008 4:43 pm
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Chris_and_Leanne Supreme Reefer



Joined: 08 Aug 2007 Posts: 1961
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Yes what Elle said is so true ! Sometimes it is time to move away from people like that..... draining all your energy ! Some people are just all take and they will continue to do that. If they can not be mature enough to keep their issues to themselves and your 'friend' does not have the decency or maturity to tell the person that, those are their issues and they will have to put up with it, then she too isn't worth it ! Don't let them drain your time or energy anymore and move on !
Lea x _________________ www.secretgardenholistics.com
Holistic Therapist and Reiki Practioner, Burnley, UK. |
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Tue Feb 12, 2008 6:57 pm
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sara Supreme Reefer



Joined: 30 Dec 2004 Posts: 4462
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..ignorant, immature fools!!...look to the future without them, you'll make plenty more friends when you get to tenerife anyway !! good luck! |
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Tue Feb 12, 2008 8:21 pm
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margaretbl Supreme Reefer



Joined: 01 Mar 2007 Posts: 3681 Location: south tyneside
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Let them hang as they grow pet, they are not worth it, think of your move and all the new Friends you will make,
and if she does ring tell her to shove her meal where the sun don't shine  _________________ Failures don't plan to fail, they fail to plan
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Wed Feb 13, 2008 9:30 am
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claire24 Pro Reefer



Joined: 31 Dec 2007 Posts: 218 Location: AT MO : HAYES MIDDLESEX
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i think i was just having an emo day, i just find it easier to rant and get stuff off my chest in here than anywhere else right now, and elle what you said is very very true - I dont need to be playing playground games
Woop woope though... 13 days and im over xxx _________________ www.myspace.com/claire_the_babe
I am also on Face book ... but who isnt ?? |
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Wed Feb 13, 2008 11:18 am
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louisa Junior Reefer



Joined: 30 Dec 2006 Posts: 90
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Hi Claire
I have moved out here two weeks ago and all my true friends said they would miss me like mad but encouraged me fully and said if it is what i really wanted they would be there for me - and they all want to come out to see me for holiday. The true friends will be the ones who are still contacting you in a few years time.
It was all very tearful when i left but I know where they are if I need them and vice versa.
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Wed Feb 13, 2008 12:31 pm
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claire24 Pro Reefer



Joined: 31 Dec 2007 Posts: 218 Location: AT MO : HAYES MIDDLESEX
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Wed Feb 13, 2008 3:05 pm
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funky Supreme Reefer



Joined: 22 Feb 2006 Posts: 1682 Location: He's behind you ........
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In a word....... JEALOUSY!
To be honest though Claire, at least you know what they are about now. It would be worse if they were sweet to your face about it, then slag you off behind your back and then in the summer, they'd all be trying to use you for a free holiday.
But chin up, you remember how friendly it is here. You'll make twice as many new friends out here after you arrive!  _________________ My Paranoia-Management Therapy is going great! Now they're only watching me half the time.... |
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